Written By Benjamin Ngiam
What up Amigos!
Grab the cutest guy or girl closest to you and brace yourselves for impact because today, we are going to talk about Mr & Mrs Right– And the cute guy or girl you just grabbed might just be ‘The One‘!
To make things a little more interesting today, I thought “Why not bring up something a little more fascinating to talk about? Something a little closer to heart?”
So here it is. Our life partner.
Our IDEAL life partner.
Throughout the course of your life…
I’m sure you have overheard your girl friends talking about this or maybe even discussed this yourself with your friends- About this supposedly fantasized or imaginary Male or Female population of the Human World (As made popular by the ever so wonderful and amazing Hollywood and Disney).
But in all honesty, is it really a Fantasy? Or is it possible that such a person exist?
Well, to me, this person actually exist BUT not exactly the way we’d expect them to be.
Let me make things a little clearer…
Chances are, you have always been thinking along this line “My ideal partner has to be rich, good looking and sensitive… Etc” (Yeah, some guys do think about these too!) and some other high level of requirements which would likely make your ideal partner sound almost too good to be true, and in turn, make them sound wishful and non-existent.
In my opinion, the reason that you have never been able to find THEM, is because it has never been about THEM.
It’s never been about what your potential ideal partner owns, how your potential ideal partner looks on the outside… Nor what they are like on the inside.
The fact that you can’t seem to find Mr/Mrs Right isn’t because of the people out there in the world not being able to fit in the bill.
IT HAS NEVER BEEN ABOUT THEM.
It has always been you.
YOUR OWN PERCEPTION of Mr/Mrs Right determines whether they exist or not.
BOOOOM! I know right? Mind-blown!
Makes sense doesn’t it? If you think about it, your own personal ideal Mr / Mrs Right was never Disney-Perfect until you were exposed to that and was convinced that “Hey, the perfect Prince/Princess might actually exist” and you started expecting to find them in the real world. Damn it Disney. I still love you though.
Truth is, Mr / Mrs Right is actually the person whom, you deem as the ONE who you know that you can and want to live happily ever after with.
The person whom, you know, you can depend on.
The person who understands you and does their best to ensure you are happy and your needs are met (Physical, Psychological & Emotional).
You need him/her as much as he/she needs you.
It doesn’t matter how much money they have.
It doesn’t matter how big his car or house is.
It doesn’t matter as long as YOU don’t think it matters.
The sad truth- Mr / Mrs Right actually existed in our world…
Until the indoctrination of social media sank into our heads and they just disappeared from our radar.
But hey, now that we are aware of this, we can do something about it, can’t we?
What do you think?
I would love to hear your thoughts and opinion on this. I am really interested to know what are the opinions of others around the world on this topic.
You can contact me via email@example.com if you want to keep your thoughts just between the two of us;
You can post your opinion in the comments section where your voices can be heard by people around the world!
Also, do you guys think this post is good enough to be made into a podcast episode? I have a feeling that it is lol what do you think?
Anywho- Till my next post, thanks for reading and I wish you have a great weekend ahead! Talk again soon 😉
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Hope you found it useful and use it to fulfill your life mission!
Hope to see you there, Champ!
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