Our Mission

Super Time-Saver Summary- You are an amazing, wonderfully awesome human-being who can make a positive difference in lives. You just got to believe that you are THIS EPIC and crush it! Let’s rock together 😉

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Project Believe In Yourself exists as a community with the sole purpose of making a positive difference in people’s lives by providing contents to encourage & inspire positive living through the spirit and act of motivational support and kindness towards those in our lives! (And those who are yet to be!)

Aside from having access to resources from our website, as a member of this new movement, you will also be given the ability to help contribute to our website AND you will also gain access to the countless support from our positive community!


PBIY aims to improve quality of life on Earth by doing the following:

1. Transform negative outlooks/mindsets towards life into a positive one.

2.  Provide a greater understanding to issues and challenges in life via our community’s content (Videos, written articles, blogs & etc)- Especially those related to Mental and Social Health.

3.  Acknowledge the fact that the world has lots of negatives but nevertheless– We learn to embrace the fact that there are also lots of positives, as we strive to create more positive in the world to OUTSHINE the negative!

4.  Develop & inspire an active, honest and GENUINE community of positive souls to share their experiences, knowledge and insights in life!

Ready to join us? We wholeheartedly welcome you!
To join us, you just need to do ONE thing (An optional Step TWO if you own a blog/website!):

Step 1: Email me via doubleyourpresence@gmail.com and inform me of your interest in joining so that I can approve and add your name into our “List of Believers” (Aka Community Name list lol). If you’d like to contribute? Let me know in this email and we can discuss it further there!

Step 2 (Optional): If you own a Blog/Website? Do give me your links so that I can provide a “Path” for everyone to check out your awesome content!

Once I’ve approved your application, pin up our Project’s Badge of Honor (See below) on your site to show your support for our cause in making a difference and help spread the awareness!

Don’t forget to link the badge to our website so that it’ll be easy for newcomers to join our cause!

[***Update- Step 3: Join our Closed Group Members-Only FaceBook Club HERE!***]

PBIY’s Badge of Honor – A pledge of your undying will to make the world a better place for everyone!


a. To provide Believers with a clear & easy way of identifying other members- For purpose such as Mastermind Groups (A group of like minded people assembled to support each other’s Dreams/Goals/etc) and other activities which encourages positive living!

b. In future, to organize and provide regular competitions to inspire progress and allow constructive reviews from the community for an extra dose of motivation to see things through.

c. To spread awareness of our mission in creating a better world for everyone!

Hope to hear from you!

Your pal,
Benjamin Ngiam

[Note: Though I appreciate all applications & members eagerness to contribute to the cause– In order to protect the Community & maintain both the good name of it and it’s members, I do have to reserve the right to decline to include or publish anything that I find inappropriate or has nothing to do with- Or even go against our cause.]

-Long Version of PBIY’s Mission-

Each morning when I open my eyes, I say to myself: 
“I, not events, have the power to make me happy or  unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn’t arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and I’m going to be happy in it.”
– Groucho Marx

Why should I believe?

Imagine for a moment- A world where there’s hope for anything that you wish to have accomplish, a reality. A world where anything is possible.

Now, imagine if you were surrounded by people who make that world a reality!

What would that look like? How differently would you:

  • Treat the cashier who hands you your daily morning coffee?
  • Treat your husband, wife, kids and friends?
  • How much more extra mile would you go to ensure things get done in life?
  • How much more creative innovation would there be?
  • How differently would those around you start to treat others as a result of how you treated them?

A single flap of a single seagull’s wings would be enough to change the course of all future weather systems on the earth. A single flap of a Butterfly’s wings at specific moment can cause a hurricane weeks later. (Chaos Theory / The Butterfly Effect, first described by Meteorologist Edward Lorenz, 1972)

Yes, you can make a difference in this world. Believe it!

After a recent life changing event in my life,  I noticed that a lot of people are angry, frustrated or unhappy because they have something inside them unfulfilled. They feel empty and unsatisfied in life because they aren’t being true to themselves. They do not live their life the way they wish to. Hence the cognitive dissonance (Or internal conflict) and the negative outlook and behavior in life.

When a need is unsatisfied, it shows.

Much like how a hungry man is an angry man- An unsatisfied soul is a wounded soul. It needs healing. Take a minute to think about the people surrounding you right now. Are they mostly negative people? If so, is it possible that they are negative because they got specific needs in their life unfulfilled?

WE BELIEVE THAT THE WORLD WOULD BE a DIFFERENT PLACE IF we see hope in things we do. when there is hope, there is possibility, When your ideal life is a possibility, things START TO MATTER TO you and eventually, to THOSE AROUND US AS WELL. THAT’S when your WORLD starts to change.

Sounds impossible but it isn’t! Especially when you surround yourself with people who BELIEVE as well. There are the “Possibilities and Impossibilities” in life but since the dawn of mankind, we confuse the 2 ideals and eventually let the “Daunting truth” takeover. It is time for a change. It is time for us to see the difference and allow ourselves to be exposed to that new world of opportunities and possibilities.

This is the mission of Project BIY.

We want to expose you to this new world – to a community that makes the impossible not only possible, but normal. A community where people support each others’ beliefs and hopes for the ideal life. That is Project Believe In Yourself.

I, this site, we, you – all of us are here to create a world of hope and possibilities.

It is not going to be easy (Nothing worth doing ever is!) but this journey is going to a sweet one. There will be some bitter moments as you fall at times but this is where this community comes in. We support each other through these moments till we achieve our goal and when we do, we share the pride and joy of it all together!

Together, we can make a difference in each others’ lives- We can push each other up and move even further in life!

“Is there no hope..?”

That’s the thought most people have when they are filled with doubts.

And the answer? Yes, there is!

In fact- There’s a lot of hope to go around. You just got to know where to find it. Hence, as a part of the Project BIY team, it is our duty to shed light on that path – and show you and everyone else that we are not alone.

Yes, you have the power to change your life and even make a difference in the lives others. You just have to BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!

Let’s set off on a journey together, to realize the potential in you and make the world a better place to live in! To start you off, here’s a little “Beliefs Booster” for you.

Ready to start believing? Share your positive spirit with us!

Your friend,

P.S.  Click here to find out more about me and what I do.

61 thoughts on “Our Mission

    1. Thanks for the visit and comment Megha! I’m glad to know that it is exhibiting that kind of atmosphere because that is exactly what I intended the site to do.

      Good to know I’m on the right track 😉

      Anyway, thank you for taking your time to come here and leaving this comment, I really appreciate it! If you want to be more connected and wish to contribute more to the community, do feel free to check out the forum and like our Facebook page to show your support!

      Your friend,


      1. Hey Benjamin
        I just wanted to say a special thank you for reaching out to me. For some reason, there’s an error on your first comment so I can’t access it to re read it. However, I have read it in the past, my most sincere apologies for not responding. It wasn’t you it was me, lol. Corny, couldn’t help it! But I was quite low at the time and not responding to anyone at all so please forgive me.
        All the best, Belinda💕

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      2. Don’t worry bud. We all have our low points in life and that’s when we truly need support.

        If you ever need someone to talk to, you know where you can find one who truly wishes to help 😉

        I totally understand what you mean and perhaps a little on how you feel as I’ve been to such points in life where I just don’t want to bother ppl nor let them bother me. Just remember, you don’t have to go through this alone, alright?

        Talk to you again soon, champ. Stay chirpy 😉

        Your pal,

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  1. Hi Benjamin,
    Blessed to have stumbled across your positive energy through SparkyJen’s blog.
    We all need more positivity in our lives so I’ll be watching this space for new post from you from now on.

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    1. SparkyJen is one of the most positively inspiring person I’ve met haha! Thanks for the visit and comment, Chanty.

      I’m glad that you feel this way because it’s exactly what I feel and I believe that it IS possible to create such a place were positivity is at its heart.

      I will do my best to make this community a reality and not disappoint!

      Cheers for the support 🙂

      Your friend,

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  2. Hi Pal,
    I am really glad to pass by your site, where there is lots of energy exchange happening!
    Love to be a part in this positive world with fragrances of hope!!
    Lastly, I hope my joining here will help…sorry enable at least one on earth to realize potential in belief!!(It can be me too 😉 )

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    1. Hey Pranavya!

      Thanks for dropping by and leaving this awesome comment. You have no idea what this means to me, knowing that there are people who shares my beliefs as well and aren’t afraid to step up and make it happen 😉

      Trust me, your presence will make a difference in a lot of peoples’ lives and I definitely hope the whole community can make things happen for you in your life too!

      One of the easiest way to get started to is ‘Like’ our facebook community page and
      start sharing posts or commenting in everyone else’s posts over there!

      You can write or post about anything positive, inspiring or fun there- Be it something fun like maybe you saw a monkey juggling oranges while on the way to work/classes (Take a pic and post it onto the FB community page!) or;

      You read something inspiring on your FB feed from your friends and you feel it necessary to share with everyone- share it to our FB Community page too!

      We are mainly looking for things which can help brighten everybody’s day and life!

      If you don’t use FB, don’t fret! I saw a few of your posts on your site and I can tell that you write great content too! By doing so,you are already making a difference in people’s lives IN YOUR OWN WAY. That, by itself, is already awesome.

      But you know what Pranavya? You got me thinking. If I want to make a better presence for this project, I will need to create a badge of sorts to let our blogger community pin to their page and let people know what us, bloggers of this community stand for!

      Cheers for the inspiration Pranavya! See? You are already making a difference 😉

      Your pal,

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    1. Hence I felt the need to make this a mission to spread the positivity and message 🙂

      If you ever got anything that you feel is good to share with the world? Please feel free to share and thanks for the visit and comment bud!

      Your pal,

      Liked by 1 person

      1. thanks for telling me again here i did not received a link so i did not knew thanks again for mentioning my link there i will participate i do not know much of designs but i will try bye take care 🙂

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      2. Lol no need to design anything if you don’t want to. A vote when the time comes or providing us with feedbacks are good enough.

        But all that is only if you wish to get involved! And there’s no obligation so don’t worry if you don’t want to 🙂

        Your pal,

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      3. Aww that’s really sweet of you for recognizing my efforts like this 🙂

        Thanks so much bud! Seriously though, you gotta give me a name to call you by lol I think it’s kinda rude to not know your name when we’re like friends here.

        Imagine talking to a friend and not knowing his or her name and just call them Red because they wear red lol. I think that’s not nice for Red.

        Give an alias if you’re not comfortable in giving your real name yeah? 😉

        Your pal,

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      4. Ohhh you are Daisey lol! You submitted a design for the BoH Contest yeah? 🙂

        Indeed, friendship can be forged here on WP thanks to the awesome magical powers of the Internet and the WP team for giving us this platform haha!

        Wouldn’t have been possible many years back. What a time to be alive, no? 😉

        Your pal,


      1. Oh for iTunes you got to leave a review with the “stars” after clicking on “Write a review” lol thanks for taking the time to find out, really appreciate this!

        Your pal,

        Liked by 1 person

    1. Thanks for sharing this awesome comment and spirit with us, Deny!

      Already responded to your email- Welcome aboard 😉

      Your pal,

      P.S. To really get involved with everyone else, join us at our forum!


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